In my previous installment I related a humorous (in retrospect) incident involving my baby brother who was born in Henrietta. I clearly recall going to the hospital and looking through a glass window and looking at the array of newborns in cribs available for viewing by family and friends during visiting hours. Frankly, to my young eyes, they all looked alike, but it was a thrill to pick out my new sibling by the name card attached to his crib.
I would, however, be
greatly remiss if I
failed to mention my
younger sister who was
four when we arrived.
One of my earliest
memories is the day
she and our mother
came home from the
hospital. I was the
first person (aside
from my parents)
allowed to hold her. I
had grown quite
excited during the run
up to her birth and
thrilled to be able to
cradle her and marvel
at her tiny features,
fingers, ears, etc. I
had probably never
been so close to a
baby before.
By the time we moved
she had grown into an
energetic, talkative
child, already
demonstrating her self
assurance and
occasional bossiness
(which was actually
quite charming). She
could also surprise.
One night after she
had been put to bed,
my parents and I were
in the kitchen at the
opposite end of the
house. We were sharing
a Hershey bar,
thinking we could get
away with it now that
my sister was safely
tucked in. All of a
sudden came the sound
of small feet and a
voice asking "Do I
smell chocolate?" She
was rewarded with a
small piece and
returned to bed.
As I noted previously,
this was my first and
only experience of a
truly small town or a
rural area. The
landscape was rather
stark and the town did
not offer much in the
way of recreational
activities, but there
was no lack of things
to do once I made a
few friends. There was
lots of open space to
run around in, many
interesting rocks to
pick up (including the
occasional rose rock),
and, best of all,
crawdads to catch.
These latter were
completely unknown to
me until a couple of
friends taught me how
to nab them after a
rare rainstorm had
passed through. We
would get a piece of
string, tie a safety
pin to it, and get
some fat from our
mothers, and look for
a sufficiently deep
puddle. Once located,
we put some fat on the
pin, and dragged it
through the water
until a crawdad
grabbed it with its
big claw. Then we
hauled it out, let it
dangle while we looked
it over carefully,
then released it back
into its puddle. I
didn't learn until
much later that these
hard-shelled
insect-like creatures
were correctly known
as crayfish and that
they were an edible
delicacy.
A more conventional
regional food
specialty was catfish,
fried and served with
cole slaw, rolls, and
possibly a green
vegetable. At that
time, Episcopalians,
like Roman Catholics,
observed meatless
Fridays. This practice
normally called for
fish sticks, macaroni
and cheese, spaghetti
with tomato sauce, or
on a really good
night, cheese pizza.
But every once in a
while, we would load
ourselves into the car
and drive for about
half an hour, across
the Red River, to
Waurika, Oklahoma, to
dine at Bill's Fish
House. This was
especially exciting
for me because not
only was the catfish
exceptional, but the
joint had a juke box
and a shuffleboard
table. I didn't
actually play but was
allowed to slide the
puck up and down the
table which for some
reason I found to be
great fun. (Years
later, I discovered
that my father had
been a table
shuffleboard champion
in college when he
easily beat me and a
friend in a tavern in
my own college town.)
I was amazed just now
when I looked on
Google maps and found
that Bill's is still
in operation, and, if
the photo is accurate,
has not been
redecorated in the
intervening 60 years.
Foodways in Henrietta
were generally highly
satisfactory. Like
most Texans we ate
steak, barbecue,
chicken-fried steak,
black-eyed peas,
cornbread, greens,
meat loaf, fried okra,
and other southern
specialties. Not fried
chicken though, unless
we got it from a
restaurant. My Dallas
grandmother cooked
unbeatable chicken in
her cast-iron skillet,
used only for frying,
in Crisco, fried once,
drained, and fried a
second time. And of
course we would go out
from time to time to
the local drive-in,
Dairy Queen if I
recall correctly, for
burgers and fries like
any good American
family.
I thought that I was
going to wrap up this
trip back in time with
this piece, but I am
nearing my
self-imposed word
limit and I still have
more reminiscences to
share. So stay tuned
for part III coming
next month.
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