Last
month I described the
jumble of emotions that
I experienced on first
arriving in Henrietta
after 60 years away.
They began to fall into
place and deepen when I
saw the name "Boddy" on
the paving stone
honoring the family's
contribution to the
restoration of the old
jail.
The feelings really
started to intensify
with the next stop: the
public library in which
I had spent so many
hours, from which I had
taken home and read
seemingly every volume
appropriate to my age
and reading level,
where I earned multiple
bookworm pins for
summer reading (five
books per pin). I found
it a block off the town
square, much expanded
since my time in
Henrietta. It seemed to
have doubled in size
and now included an
entire room devoted to
Texana. I spent some
time browsing through
books on Texas history,
culture, and food. I
could easily have spent
the rest of the day
examining volumes on
historic hotels, the
many beautiful county
courthouses in the
state, and stories of
famous and infamous
Texans.
But there was still
much to see. I was
unable to locate the
first house we lived
in, the large old
structure that didn't
have central air
conditioning but did
contain a swamp cooler
(as described in one of
the earlier chapters of
this memoir) and
boasted the old pecan
tree that was still a
prodigious producer of
nuts. But I did know
how to find Trinity
Episcopal Church and
thus our second house
since it had been built
in back of the church.
So we proceeded east on
Gilbert Street and soon
arrived and parked. The
façade was immediately
recognizable, appearing
not to have been
altered in the
intervening years. The
church was closed, so I
wasn't able to view the
interior or speak to
anyone who might have
information about the
parish today.
We walked around back
and abruptly, there was
the house. I was
greatly surprised as I
had remembered it being
across a vacant field.
But in fact only a
short sidewalk
connected the house to
the church. We went
around to the front and
for the first time, a
strong mixture of
memory and emotion
washed through me. As
with the church, the
outside of the house
was unchanged. Here was
the porch where I spent
summer afternoons
reading (and once
feared I had seriously
injured my then-baby
brother). There were
the decorative shutters
fastened to the wall on
either side of the
windows. One tree that
I couldn't remember
whether it had been
there in our time. I
took photos and had my
partner take some of
me, but mostly I just
gazed at the house as
memories flooded over
me.
From there it was one
jolt after another. At
the end of the block
was the field
where we caught
horny toads and
"fished" for crawdads.
On a nearby corner, the
Dairy Queen I would
visit for ice cream and
cokes (in Texas "coke"
is the term for any
soft drink). And on one
side the highway that
led to Dallas in one
direction and Wichita
Falls in the other.
On the way back to the
car, while looking over
the old neighborhood
and especially noting
the scattering of
native plants, we
encountered a friendly
letter carrier
delivering the mail.
She was interested to
hear that I had lived
on that block—I
pointed out the
house—so many
years before. She was
not originally from
Henrietta, but came
from a nearby town even
smaller. We allowed as
how it was a good place
for a kid to grow up,
at least in part.
We returned to the car
and proceeded to my
elementary school where
I noted the biggest
change since my time
there. The high school
had been across the
parking lot that we had
to cross to the
cafeteria. It was now
sharing a building with
the elementary school
and the structure
presented a façade
that was at least two
continuous blocks long.
It was gratifying to
see the stadium where I
spent many Friday
nights cheering on the
Henrietta Bearcats. It
appeared to have been
renovated and enlarged
as it now sported a
running track around
the football field.
We drove a little
farther and stumbled
upon an entirely new
development of large
and rather fancy houses
tucked in behind the
campus. They would not
be out of place in a
suburb of Dallas.
It was getting to be
time to head back to
Big D but before our
departure, there was
one final stop. We
drove back through town
and arrived at Clay
County Memorial
Hospital where my
brother was born in
July 1963. Like most of
the other significant
locations in Henrietta,
it had apparently
remained unchanged over
the decades since we
resided in the town. I
shot a photo, then we
hit the road back to
Dallas.
We took the alternate
route that led us to
I-35, where we had
lunch in Gainesville
(the first "big" town
in Texas upon crossing
the Red River from
Oklahoma). The DFW
urban sprawl now
extends all the way to
the river and beyond,
so the voyage back was
slower even though the
distance was slightly
shorter.
I had time along the
way to reflect on the
experience of
revisiting the place
that had had such an
impact on me as a
child. I'm still
reflecting now several
months later. It was a
remarkable and
unsurprisingly
emotional experience
and I'm very glad I
made that sentimental
journey.
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